The Christian Feminist Podcast Episode 111: Gender Equality in Parenting and Domestic Labor

Episode 111: Gender Equality in Parenting and Domestic Labor

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Ilia Danner Grubbs, Victoria Reynolds Farmer, and Katie Norman Grubbs discuss Darcy Lockman’s book All the Rage, and issues of gender equality in parenting and domestic labor.  

 

WELCOME

SEGMENT 1: KNOWING

Introduction and personal background

SEGMENT 2: READING

 

  • Term Definitions: 

 

Individualism vs. Essentialism 

Slackers vs. Helpers vs. Sharers 

 

  • Information about Disparities in Household Labor and How it Affects us 

 

Discussion of three of the studies referenced in the book

 

  • Steps Toward Change

 

Self Evaluation Questions:

  • Who in your relationship has the leeway to forget something in parenthood or in household responsibilities?  
  • Have you and your partner ever explicitly discussed expectations for division of household labor?  How has the division borne out in reality? Has it changed after children/job changes/or just over time?
  • Who bears the responsibility for kinkeeping?  (Relational maintenance outside the home)
  • How much of your household work is “hidden” vs. how much is recognized and appreciated/applauded?  
  • How much of your household responsibilities are scafolded by the work of your partner?  
  • How much of your involvement in household work is discretionary?  How much is expected?
  • What happens if you choose not to do a task? Does your partner do it or does it remain undone until you go back to it?
  • Do you notice when a task needs to be done, or are you “happy to help” if it is pointed out to you?

SEGMENT 3: PASSING ON

Ilia: Article about All the Rage on NPR

Men Do See the Mess article by The Conversation

All the Rage by Darcy Lockman

 

Victoria: A Strange Stirring: The Feminine Mystique and American Women at the Dawn of the 1960s by Stephanie Coontz

 

Katie: Unfinished Business by Anne-Marie Slaughter

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